Purple and Pink Elegant North Carolina Wedding

As you all know, Valentine’s Day is quickly approaching. And, as you also know, today is Friday. Turns out, I have the perfect wedding to share with you from Elizabeth Scott Photography to kick us off into the weekend and the Valentine’s celebrating. This wedding exudes romance–from the elegant ballroom, to the combination of deep purples and blush pinks, to the gorgeous bride, Danielle, and her stunning gown. There’s some playfulness infused into it all as well–check out the bride’s sparkly Toms shoes!

What (or who) helped you most in your planning process and/or on your wedding day?

During the planning process, the people that helped my husband and I the most were my sister (maid of honor) and both of our mothers.  They were great sounding boards for ideas and suggestions.  They were always willing to help us in anyway they could and many of our projects would not have been done so beautifully without them.  On our wedding day, our day-of coordinator (Dorianne) at the country club was the most helpful.  Her calm demeanor kept my husband and I relaxed throughout the entire day; without her, the day and our experience would not have gone so smoothly.

What was the most important thing to you when deciding who to work with for your wedding?

Initially the most important thing when deciding who to work with was their timely responses.  Many vendors I would email or call and not hear back for several days and I knew I wouldn’t be able to work with them.  In addition to promptness, the most important thing to me when deciding on who to work with for the wedding was their ability to see my vision for the day and to help develop those ideas.  I am not good at making decisions and I had several different visions for the day so I needed someone who could help me narrow down ideas and make those ideas come alive.

Did any of your vendors do anything special for you before, on, or after your wedding day that you would like to share?

Yes!  After we contracted our photographers, they sent us a beautiful picture frame as a thank you.  The country club where the ceremony and reception were located provided us with an elaborate food and beverage tasting – above and beyond what most places would include in helping us make our decision.  Our florist provided me with the tossing bouquet for free.  Lastly, my hair stylist brought me the ingredients to one of my favorite drinks on the wedding day!

What was your favorite thing about your wedding?

My favorite thing about our wedding was the ceremony and ceremony space.  I always wanted the ceremony to be outside and I can’t imagine a more perfect space.  I began my walk down the aisle with my dad down a long beautiful flight of stairs which overlooked the golf course.  At the end of the aisle was a beautiful tree that became the focal point of the whole space.  Hanging on the aisle chairs were eggplant pomanders which were later turned into centerpieces for the reception.  The pomanders were my favorite decoration piece from the florist.  Between the weather, fall colors, and all of our friends and family being with us, it could not have been more perfect.    

What is your best piece of advice for other brides?

My best advice for other brides is to take a deep breath and enjoy the process.  Towards the end of the wedding planning I was ready for it be over, but I miss all things wedding already!  Lastly, make sure to stay true to the vision you and your husband-to-be see for your day.  It can be easy to get carried away with everyone’s opinions and with all the pretty wedding things out there, but the most important thing is that you have the day that you and your groom always dreamed of.  Enjoy it!

A big thank you to Elizabeth Scott Photography for sharing this picture perfect wedding with us and to Danielle for letting us in on her Big Day!

Was the wedding successful? Are you in the Valentine’s mood now? All starry eyed and dreamy? I hope so. :)

xo-Kristine

 

Vendors who made it all happen…

Photographer: Elizabeth Scott Photography / Flowers & Decor: Lily Greenthumb's Floral Artistry / Reception Venue: Providence Country Club / Cake Baker: Cheesecake Etc. / DJ: Z Brothers
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  • Brenda's Wedding Blog:

    February 10, 2012 10:57 am

    what a beautiful wedding and I'm so in love with the brides gorgeous dress
  • Kaelyn {Something Navy}:

    February 12, 2012 1:15 am

    The color of all the flowers really took my breath away. They are so pretty. The sparkly TOMS are a favorite of mine. What a beautiful wedding!
  • Featured On Every Last Detail | Charlotte Wedding Photographers:

    February 13, 2012 2:23 pm

    [...] I was so excited to see Danielle & Brent’s Wedding featured on Every Last Detail this past Friday! A big thank you to Lauren for the feature!! :) See the whole feature here. [...]
  • Jenna Stratman:

    February 13, 2012 8:11 pm

    The venue here is just stunning!! As is the bride in that amazing dress. Seriously digging those sparkly TOMS, too ;)
  • Jodye:

    February 16, 2012 11:03 am

    I'm Donnas friend the grooms aunt and I must say it was the most beautiful wedding I've ever seen in a photo. Wish I was there. Congrats and remember why you fell in love and got married. Never take ea for granted. Love is the greatest love of all!!!
Tuesday Tips: Make Your Ceremony Your Own

In my opinion, one of the toughest things to do when planning your wedding is figuring out what to include in your ceremony. Who says what when? What is required in order to be legally married? When in the world do you say your vows, exchange the rings, light the candles? Most brides and grooms, at least most brides and grooms I’ve come across {including myself}, tend to think there’s some kind of formula you have to follow. And while it’s helpful to know what’s usually done, your ceremony should ultimately be a reflection of who you are as a couple. Include elements that are significant to you. Follow the traditions that mean something to you. In essence, make your ceremony your own.

Photo via Captured by Jenny

Choose meaningful music

You can walk down the aisle to whatever you want so choose a song that you’ll remember for years to come. Likewise, play songs that mean something to you and your partner during the prelude, the processional of the wedding party, and the recessional. My husband and I wanted to do something fun and unexpected when we walked back down the aisle so we chose California Girls by The Beach Boys. Our guests loved it.

Photo via Elizabeth Scott Photography

Include and honor your loved ones

You can do this by the traditional Lighting of the Candles {typically done by the mothers} or by presenting flowers or tokens of appreciation to your parents. Or you can do something entirely different. Light candles in remembrance of loved ones, dedicate a reading, ask your families to stand to give their Declaration of Intent {including them in the task of upholding your marriage as well}.

Photo via Meg Sexton Photography

Write your own vows

Either ditch the traditional vows altogether and write your own or recite the traditional vows and include a personal statement while exchanging rings. I go back and forth on this one. There’s something very sacred, and romantic, about repeating the same words spoken by couples for centuries. But there’s also something so personal and intimate about promising to love your partner in your own words.

Photo via Rae Leytham Photography

Get creative

We all know about the unity candle. And the sand ritual. Traditionally, after reciting the vows and exchanging the rings, the bride and groom participate in a joint act symbolizing their new union. I love the significance of that! So why not get creative with it? Any suggestions?

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Former brides, how did you make your ceremony personal to you and your groom? Brides-to-be, are you including any fun and unique elements of your own? Share in the comments! I’d love to hear.

xo-Kristine

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  • Dara:

    January 31, 2012 9:08 am

    These tips are right on time! I have started to think about what to include in my ceremony and how my fiance and i want to make it personal and not just cookie-cutter and like everyone Else's. I think we will do the traditional vows then include a personal statement at the end of our vows. I look forward to seeing the other comments/thoughts posted!
  • Courtney:

    January 31, 2012 4:12 pm

    these are great tips. i love to witness a ceremony that is truly unique to the couple.
  • Katie:

    January 31, 2012 5:22 pm

    We were thinking instead of sand to pour dirt from our childhood backyards. One of us is from the north with dark dirt and the other is from the south with red clay. Thoughts?
  • Kristine:

    February 1, 2012 11:28 am

    Hi Katie! I love your idea to combine dirt from your childhood backyards. It's so symbolic of joining your pasts, your histories, and your traditions, and moving forward into the future together. And I would make sure to let your guests know what you're doing as I'm sure they'd all appreciate the meaning behind it as well! Thanks for sharing! xo
Rustic DIY Florida Wedding

One of my favorite things is when a photographer says about a wedding, “It was very them.” And that’s exactly what Heidi Mitchell Photography said of Tiffany and Jeff’s Florida wedding, adding that it was “simple, sweet, and full of love for each other and their close families.” Tiffany wanted a simple, rustic wedding on a budget so she enlisted the help of family and friends to make the boutonnieres, hair pieces, centerpiece art work, and reception decor. She carried a locket with her grandmother’s photo and her shoes were signed by her parents in blue ink–her something old and something blue. Don’t you love that?

What (or who) helped you most in your planning process and/or on your wedding day?

My wedding coordinator Lauren Salas was a huge help, and a close friend, Amber Nardino.

What was the most important thing to you when deciding who to work with for your wedding?

The most important thing I wanted to ensure was that everything was really true to who Jeff and I were. I wanted to be very involved in every detail of my wedding day and the vendors all pretty much stepped back and let me do things the way they were intended to be done.

What was your favorite thing about your wedding?

My favorite thing about my wedding was probably my cake and the bonfire we had. My cake was flown in from BCakeNY and it was a huge hit. It looked beautiful and was delicious. My sister ordered it for me and it was such a huge blessing.

What is your best piece of advice for other brides?

1.) Do a first look. It was one of the best decisions we made. The day went seamlessly after that and it was such a beautiful and private moment. Also, the guests were grateful they didn’t have to wait to enjoy the reception after the short and sweet ceremony. 2.) Get pedicures the morning of and spend time with those you love. Rest and enjoy every minute and don’t worry about the details.

I love all the details and the simple little touches like photos of the couple in mason jars. How creative! A big thank you to Heidi Mitchell Photography for these beautiful photos and to Tiffany for sharing with us about her Big Day. By the way, brides-to-be, heed her advice–rest, enjoy every minute, and don’t worry!

xo-Kristine

 

Vendors who made it all happen…

Photographer: Heidi Mitchell Photography / Reception Venue: Bayside Banquet Hall / Flowers & Decor: Flowers By Don / Cake Baker: BCakeNY
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  • Jenna Stratman:

    January 29, 2012 9:47 pm

    I always seem to fall hard for a gorgeous and unique cake. Overall beautiful affair!! The bride is precious.
Inspiration Board: Winter Red, Plum, & White

Since it’s beginning to feel a lot more like winter around here (“Here” being the Midwest, we know all you people living in the South are still enjoying sandals and bonfires {ahem, Lauren}…) I thought it’d be a good time to post a little winter inspiration. While I love the all-white winter weddings and I really can’t get enough of those beautiful pastels, I’m a big fan of incorporating some color into the season as well.

Row 1: Chandelier, bouquet, escort cards, wedding party

Row 2: Bride & groom, cake, invitation, bouquet

Don’t you love the deep reds and plums contrasted against the white? It makes such a statement yet is still so romantic. Tell me, which would you choose–all-white, pretty pastels, or a pop of color? And I know snow is c-o-l-d but it sure makes for stunning photos, doesn’t it?

xo-Kristine

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  • Brit Stewart:

    January 18, 2012 1:55 am

    Love me some bold red in the winter!

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