Elegant Gold and White Missouri Wedding

Um, I honestly cannot believe it’s Friday already! You would think that with Leap Day, this week would have felt longer or something? Definitely not- it felt about ten times shorter! Nonetheless, it IS indeed Friday and I’m sure all of you are excited for the first weekend of March! I think this elegant wedding that I have for you all from Heather Brulez Photography is an excellent segway from the winter into spring. This gold and white color combination would actually be perfect for any season! It’s definitely elegant and timeless, which is always gorgeous! Oh and the bride, Leslie, is stopping by to share some of her insight from her planning process too!

What (or who) helped you most in your planning process and/or on your wedding day?

I think my florist and my event coordinator helped me the most in planning the day of my wedding.  I had nothing but ideas in my head and clippings from magazines.  My florist, Russ, took my ideas and really transformed them into a complete vision.  I had never done this before (like most brides) and so it was very nice to leave the day-of coordinating to the professionals.

What was the most important thing to you when deciding who to work with for your wedding?

When deciding who to work with for my wedding, a personal reference seemed to make the most sense to me.  I was very overwhelmed when searching for vendors on the internet, so finally I just asked for help on my Facebook status!  I knew I had deadlines to book several vendors, so this just seemed to be the most effective way to chose a reliable vendor.

Did any of your vendors do anything special for you before, on, or after your wedding day that you would like to share?

I think my florist, Russ, made the day the most special.  He really wanted to include personal touches throughout the wedding that I had simply overlooked.  My dad had passed away about six years prior to my wedding, and he wanted to make sure my dad’s memory was as significant or personal as I wanted it to be.  Russ wanted to tie in as many family references throughout the day as possible, and as I look back on the day, I’m glad he reminded me of how important my family is!

What was your favorite thing about your wedding?

My favorite thing about my wedding had to be how much fun we all had on the dance floor!  My husband and I met at a wedding, and there we realized that our (sometimes tacky) dance moves meant we were made for each other.  We let it all out that day!  We got married July 30th, so naturally it was extremely hot.  But by the end of the night, my family and friends were having so much fun, and we didn’t seem to care how hot it was outside.  I loved that we got married at a hotel, so most of the guests could really partake in the wedding festivities and just go right up to their room at the end of the night, or go for a dip in the hotel pool!

What is your best piece of advice for other brides?

I think the best piece of advice I could give other brides would be to delegate some of the never-ending list of duties to others.  I know you may feel like you can do it all yourself, but sometimes you have to pass on a few of those tasks to others.  Your bridesmaids, mother, fiance, family, and friends are there to help and WANT to help!  No matter how small the task, delegating a job to another will relieve you and make that person feel included in your wedding process.

Thank you so much for your insight Leslie! And thank you to Heather Brulez Photography for sharing this beautiful wedding with us!

How awesome is it that they met at a wedding? I just love that! Oh and how about those awesome brooches and items in the bride’s bouquet?! The tables were all named from the different cities that their guests had traveled from… what a great idea! I’m sure it made their guests feel a little bit more of a “part” of the wedding. So what about you all? Are any of you going to be having brooches or items in your bouquets or flowers? Or will you be including your guests in the decor of your wedding like Leslie did with the table names?

 

Vendors who made it all happen…

Photographer: Heather Brulez Photography / Flowers & Decor: Changing Seasons / Reception Venue: Elms Resort & Spa / Hair & Makeup: Blush Co. / Cake Baker: Covenant Cakes / DJ: Auspicious Occasions / Groom’s Attire: Men's Wearhouse / Bridal Salon: The Gown Gallery / Bride’s Jewelry: Garter Boutique
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  • Shannon {Shannon Reeves Events}:

    March 2, 2012 10:06 am

    Oooh! Loving that bouquet!
  • Denise:

    March 2, 2012 10:25 am

    The table name choices are a great idea - I think the guests definitely were made to feel special! I also really loved the hanging lanterns of the ceremony - that's really beautiful!
  • Erin Davenport:

    March 2, 2012 1:09 pm

    Super gorgeous! In love with the ceremony and getting ready shots. Beautiful details and bridesmaid dresses.
  • Sam Ali:

    March 2, 2012 4:15 pm

    Such a nice wedding and amazing theme and photography.
  • Latonya:

    March 3, 2012 3:22 pm

    One of the most beautiful wedding decores, dresses, pictures, and the most fun I have ever had! Leslie and Matt it was beyond an honor to be apart of it!
  • Brit Tucker Stewart:

    March 4, 2012 12:33 am

    Love the hanging lanterns in the gazebo!
  • Kathy:

    March 5, 2012 4:52 am

    Wooo!!Love the colors white and sold combination!! So great!! And all the daisy details are my favorite!!! and i really lov ethe fresh green !!!the invitation cards are so great!!!!
  • Christie O. {Hindsight Bride}:

    March 5, 2012 10:15 am

    What an amazingly classic wedding! This will never look dated!
{Wedding Planning Advice} Time, Help, and YOU!

“Give yourself plenty of time to plan everything. Take help when it’s offered. Be sure to find a style that fits YOU and don’t just do something because it’s trendy. If you and your fiance’s personality is infused throughout your wedding, it will be best wedding ever!”

- Leslie of Elizabeth Scott Photography

 

Elizabeth Scott Photography
email: leslie@elizabethscottphotography.com | phone: 704.557.6392 | website: http://www.elizabethscottphotography.com
twitter: @leslie_keener | facebook: Elizabeth Scott Photography Page

location: Charlotte, North Carolina | type: Photographer | style: Classic, Vintage | price: $$

 

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  • Patricia Ann:

    March 2, 2012 12:09 am

    Well said we just blogged about this on our blog. girls take your time and stay in tune to your heart and you'll find that style that is you and what you others to see
Thursday Tips: Wedding Details Inspired By YOU!

One of the biggest reasons for why I love details so much is because they are the perfect way for a couple to infuse their personalities and lives into their wedding. Gone are the days of the boring-favors-that-you-throw-away-on-your-way-out-of-the-reception and the sign-your-name-on-the-line-guestbooks. Everyone is recognizing that weddings are just so much better when they reflect the bride and groom… and the details are the key to this!

So now you might be thinking that you and your fiance don’t have personalities or lives that are interesting enough to have these awesome and unique details for your wedding. I know, I know… I thought the same thing! The difference between you and me though is that my husband and I weren’t able to completely infuse US into our wedding because we just didn’t know how. But YOU can, because I’m going to tell you! :)

Photo by ELV Photographer, BRAUNphotography

So first, here are a few questions to ask yourselves. Don’t base your answers on what you *think* would translate into great details. Answer based on you and your fiance’s personalities and your life together!

1. How did you meet?

2. Do you have any special dates you have gone on, things you do, or places you frequent?

3. How did your fiance propose?

4. What are your careers? Hobbies? Passions?

5. Favorite foods, flowers, games, things, colors?

Photo by ELV photographer, Josh McCullock Photography

Okay, so now that you have the answers to the above questions, you can create a sort of story of your relationship and your personalities. Next, you’ll want to take a look at the bits and pieces of your “story”, and see how they will translate into details! The following details are all excellent things that can be customized to reflect your personalities and story…

- Overall theme of your wedding

- Save The Dates, Invitations, Stationery Items

- Welcome Bags

- Attendant Florals (bouquet stem wraps, items incorporated)

- Ceremony

- Guestbook/Sign In

- Escort Cards

- Favors

- Food & Drinks

- Centerpiece/tablescape elements (table number, items in centerpieces)

Photo via ELV Planner, Bellwether Events

Ummm, yeah, so you get that the details are just about EVERYTHING, right? ;) Well, it’s true. The details ARE just about everything for a wedding. That’s my point though. Sure, you can be inspired by other people’s weddings and the awesome posts here on ELD and all over the blogosphere, but the best inspiration of all is going to be YOURSELVES! It is YOUR wedding after all!
 
So now tell me what you’ve come up with! Anything in particular that you’re thinking of doing as a detail that is inspired by you and your fiance? Need help, advice, or just someone to tell you it’s a great idea? I’m here to help! :) Comment here or send your questions/thoughts via the ELD Q&A Page! Or if you REALLY want some major help with your details, email me… we just might be able to work something out! :)
 

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  • Katherine:

    March 1, 2012 1:41 pm

    It is all about the details. Your blog is a great resource for brides to be. Hugs!
  • Ruth @ My Love Wedding Ring:

    March 1, 2012 7:28 pm

    That is such a good article, it is a great thing to bring the focus of the day back round to the bride and groom, it is was makes them unique after all, they are the only ones that are them!!
  • Mikkel:

    March 2, 2012 12:41 am

    Completely agree! It's all about the bride and groom!
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    March 2, 2012 1:00 pm

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  • Sara:

    March 5, 2012 3:13 pm

    This blog post inspired me to start thinking about our favors and ways to incorporate our story into the wedding...the result: whoopie pie favors!
  • Lauren Grove:

    March 5, 2012 4:08 pm

    YAY Sara!!! Whoopie pie favors sound AMAZING! :)
Pink and White Shabby Chic Wedding

Wow, I don’t know about you, but this week is FLYING by! Good thing we have an “extra” day this month!! :) Well, at least it’s Wednesday, because I am absolutely IN LOVE with this wedding I have for you all today! Planned and designed by the amazing Lindye Galloway Events and photographed by Gabriel Ryan, it is just FILLED with amazing details and gorgeous shots! And with a location like the St. Regis Monarch Beah, overlooking the ocean… as I like to say, oh my GORGEOUS! :) Oh and let’s not forget that the lovely bride Brooke was a reader of Every Last Detail while she was planning her wedding- so in addition to fabulous details, you KNOW she’s going to have some excellent planning insight too! Let’s see for ourselves, shall we?

What (or who) helped you most in your planning process and/or on your wedding day?

Well, my lovely coordinator, Lindye Galloway really helped me in the final 3 months before the big day. Also my trusty guide – The Knot – Book of Wedding Lists. I’m a big list maker, so having a book that combined them all together for me was a great organizational tool. My Mom was there for emotional support and helped keep me cool, calm, and collected. And last but not least, my bridesmaids and many of my girlfriends really stepped up and helped out with numerous crafts and last minute details. They allowed me to feel SO relaxed on my wedding day…I’ve never felt so loved.

What was the most important thing to you when deciding who to work with for your wedding?

Friendly, down to earth people who would be honest with me AND budget savvy. Everyone I worked with ended up being all around good hearted people. Which made me feel so at easy on my wedding day…it was like I had friends running the show!

Did any of your vendors do anything special for you before, on, or after your wedding day that you would like to share?

My hair and make-up girls at Lashes to Locks stayed after the ceremony and acted as personal assistants to my photographer – which made for a fun and beautiful photo shoot during cocktail hr!
Also, our videographers Kelley & Paul at 618 Studios got our wedding video done incredibly fast and delivered it to us via email while we were still on our honeymoon! It was so cool to re-live our special day while we were in Italy!!

What was your favorite thing about your wedding?

I don’t think I can pick just one thing… our friends and family all being in one room together, my dad’s emotional speech, the weather, the view, the shabby chic decor (much of which came from our own home), our dessert table, our sparkler exit and the beautiful classic car waiting for us….THE PHOTOBOOTH! {oh, and marrying my boyfriend of 10 years}

What is your best piece of advice for other brides?

EAT at your wedding (and before it), you will need the carbs and energy for a night of dancing and fun! Set aside 15 minutes to eat and really enjoy that time sitting next to your new husband. Take in the view of the room together – seeing all your family and friends mingling and having fun makes all the planning stress worth it!

 
Thank you so much for all of your great wedding insights Brooke! And thank you to Lindye Galloway for putting together such a gorgeous wedding and to Gabriel Ryan Photographers for capturing it all so beautifully! :)
 
I am absolutely LOVING the centerpieces- the flowers, the table numbers, the mason jars and milk glass. And the fact that it’s still so chic and just absolutely GORGEOUS! So are you LOVING this shabby chic wedding as much as I am?! What’s your favorite detail?
 

Vendors who made it all happen…

Photographer: Gabriel Ryan Photographers / Wedding Planner/Coordinator: Lindye Galloway Events / Reception Venue: St. Regis Monarch Beach, CA / Cinematography: 618 Studios / Flowers & Decor: The Vine’s Leaf / Rentals: Chiavari Chairs 4 Rent / Photo Booth: Photo Works Interactive / Hair & Makeup: Lashes to Locks / DJ: Eric Trine / Officiant: OC Wedding Vows / Ceremony Musicians: Jessica Haddy
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  • Aleah and nick:

    February 29, 2012 12:49 pm

    so sweet - adoring the black and white photos. we don't see enough of those these days!
  • Mikkel:

    February 29, 2012 2:51 pm

    Gorgeous feature! And they have good advice too. Thanks for featuring!
  • Shane:

    February 29, 2012 5:34 pm

    Great pictures, beautiful wedding.
  • Courtney {pizzazzerie}:

    February 29, 2012 5:52 pm

    This is absolutely gorgeous! i love the cute picture of them behind the parasol! I need to find one of those for my own wedding.
  • Nicki @ GMP:

    March 1, 2012 5:47 am

    Love love love this ring shot! Very cool & creative, bravo x
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  • Brit Tucker Stewart:

    March 4, 2012 12:34 am

    Such a sweet wedding. And, love the flow of the ruffles on her gown.