{Detail To Love} Unique Ceremony Ideas

Happy Friday afternoon everyone! So this week’s weddings had some FABULOUSLY unique ceremony ideas… namely, things to do as “unity” ceremonies!

We started the week off with a chemistry-themed wedding where the bride and groom poured two clear chemicals together to create another blue chemical! Kind of perfect since they were both chemists, right?!

Photos by Emily Takes Photos

 Then, we had a vineyard wedding, where the bride and groom placed letters to each other inside a crate with 2 bottles of wine. They nailed the box together, vowing that if they ever had hard times, they would open the box, read the letters, and drink the wine together.

Photo by Aaron Watson Photography

Both of these ceremony ideas are awesome, right?! And exactly the kind of details I love to see! Have any of you decided on what you’ll be doing for your own ceremony yet?

 

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  • Jeannie:

    May 11, 2012 6:38 pm

    I love all the new ideas that I have come across but I am favoring the Rose Ceremony for our upcoming wedding in November....Have you seen this done Lauren??
Classic Jacksonville Garden Wedding

[Editor's note: Hey friends! I'm hijacking Brit's post real quick to tell you something super fun about this wedding... the beautiful bride, Kim, is my best friend's best friend! So it's kind of like we're friends by proxy, right?! Either way, I'm quite excited to be able to share it with you all today! Alright, time for you to enjoy it! :)]

Man, if only we all had a garden like Kim and Michael had for their wedding in which to marry! It’s such an incredible backdrop for their ceremony, and made for the perfect First Look location. And, it absolutely helps that the sun was shining and the greens were so vibrant. Their wedding reminds me that although the perfect location makes the perfect backdrop, so does the couple and their unconditional love. And of course with that, your wedding photos will be full of so much life- much like these from (once like a spark) photography!

What (or who) helped you most in your planning process and/or on your wedding day?

My mom was amazingly helpful in planning the wedding. She is very organized and detail-oriented like me so we were a great team. Even though there was a great deal of work to be done, we had a lot of fun in the process. I will miss those late night phone calls going over every detail. I couldn’t be happier with how the day turned out, and I really have my mom to thank!

What was the most important thing to you when deciding who to work with for your wedding?

Other than a sense that our styles were similar, definitely personality. I was already in love with the photography I had seen from “Once Like a Spark,” but meeting with the photographer Carla Gates sealed the deal. I felt completely comfortable, it was like having coffee with a new friend.

Did any of your vendors do anything special for you before, on, or after your wedding day that you would like to share?

Our caterer, Mark Shine from Designed Events, was so accommodating. Our first impression of him was great. He really made our “menu tasting session” special – he accommodated 8 very-opinionated family members in the tasting and set up a beautiful table in an art gallery with a very nice ambiance and glasses of wine for the group. It’s those special touches that made all the difference.

What was your favorite thing about your wedding?

Our ceremony really represented us as a couple. I am Catholic and Mike is Jewish, and we decided to have an interfaith ceremony in the gardens of the Cummer Museum on the St. John’s River. Our ceremony was designed by us, and highlighted both cultural and religious backgrounds. We had both a priest and a rabbi officiate the ceremony and they were both open and supportive in making sure everything was personal and meaningful to us.

What is your best piece of advice for other brides?

1. I highly recommend doing a “First Look”– it’s a very romantic and personal moment between you and your husband and the pictures are to-die-for! I definitely cherish those moments from our wedding day, and I love having those amazing shots to look back on because you can see in both our faces how special it was.

2. Your wedding should be a reflection of both you and your husband, so make sure to include his style and taste in the making of the details. My husband loves sweets, so the biggest layer of our wedding cake was his favorite flavor – Black Forest cake. He also picked out a great play list for the band, which had all of the guests up dancing the whole night.

Their sunny wedding day has me wishing it wasn’t a rare, but rainy day, in Denver today! What wedding photos are you most looking forward to at your wedding?

xo,
Brit

 

Vendors who made it all happen…

Photographer: (once like a spark) photography / Wedding Planner/Coordinator: Raya McArthur / Reception Venue: The Cummer Museum of Art & Gardens / Flowers & Decor: Shea Hopely Flowers Inc. / Cake Baker: Edgewood Bakery / Band: the faze band / Ceremony Musicians: The String Group / Bride’s Dress: Romona Keveza
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  • Christie O. {Hindsight Bride}:

    May 11, 2012 9:13 am

    Jacksonville is one of my favorite places in Florida. I love the combo of deep history and gorgeous beaches! Oh, and that cake! Ah-maaazing.
  • Meg:

    May 11, 2012 9:41 am

    Aww, look at my beautiful BFF featured on my other BFF's blog! I love it. <3 Also, these photos remind me just how tall I am... I'm towering over everyone!
  • Kim:

    May 11, 2012 11:15 am

    thank you for featuring our wedding! I spent a lot of time on "Every LAst Detail" during my WEdding planning, so it is so wonderful to be on here now. It was a perfect day and I have a lot of great people to thank for that!
  • Brit @ Landlocked Bride:

    May 11, 2012 12:31 pm

    I had so much fun posting this wedding. And, had a hard time narrowing down the photo - so. many. good. ones!
  • Ashley (once like a spark photography):

    May 14, 2012 11:18 am

    YAY! So excited to see Kim and Michael's Wedding on one of our favorite blogs! They had such a beautiful celebration, and we're so happy to have been a part of it!
{Thursday Tips} When Is The Right Time To… Have An Engagement Party?

Um, I’m not sure if I’ve already said this this week, but OMG IT’S MAY!!! I don’t know about you, but I have absolutely NO clue where April went! This seems to be a bit of a pattern for me- the months FLYING by, which result in me spending the whole first half of a new month thinking it’s still the past month. Well, since it’s May, I figured it was about time for another post in the “When Is The Right Time…” series- you know, the series that I said I was going to be doing but have yet to actually start. Today’s topic: having an engagement party!
 

When is the right time to… have an Engagement Party?

 

 I asked around about this, because I myself had my engagement party a year before my wedding, but I’ve seen them occurring just a few months before the wedding too.

My “research” has indicated that if you’re going to have an engagement party, it’s best to do it about a year before your wedding. Think of it as a way to sort of “kick off” your engagement. In a perfect world, I would suggest doing it soon after getting engaged so you’re REALLY celebrating… it could even be before you set a date! It’s also a good idea to have an engagement party if you’re planning on having a long-ish engagement- hence the year prior to the wedding suggestion.

Photo by JUSTIN JAMES PHOTOGRAPHY

Planning your wedding in less than a year? I say still go for the engagement party… as long as your wedding isn’t like 4 months away. If that’s the case, you have way too much work to do and you won’t necessarily have time for an extra party!

Who hosts the engagement party? Traditionally it’s the bride’s parents, but the party can also be hosted by the groom’s parents, your friends, or other family members. Engagement parties hosted by friends are always fun… I can’t wait for my best friends to start getting engaged so I can throw them parties! ;)

As for whether to even have an engagement party… well that is entirely up to you, your fiance, your friends, your family, etc. But I will leave you with this little thought… EVERYONE loves a good party. ;)

 

So now how about you… have you had an engagement party? When did you have yours, and who hosted it? For those of you who haven’t had one yet and still have some time before your wedding, do you want to have an engagement party?

 

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  • Katie @ Lovebird Productions:

    May 10, 2012 1:21 pm

    When Rusty proposed he secretly invited our families and friends. After he proposed we walked into the pub where he asked me to be his grilfriend to have our friends and family yell surprise! It was amazing. Our engagement party was literally the night of our engagement. The nice part...I did't have to plan a thing. Rusty did it all. I have attended a few engagement parties and I agree that they are great to kick off the wedding festivities whether that be a year until the wedding or 7 months. Have fun with it!
  • Brittany:

    May 10, 2012 2:47 pm

    My parents hosted an engagement party for my fiance and I about 2 months after we got engaged. We got engaged in December 2011, and we are planning an October 2012 wedding, so we're in the midst of a 10-month engagement. I thought our engagement party was a good way to "kick off" our wedding planning/celebration, so i say earlier is better! :) I'm sure any time would be a good time, though...it's all about sharing this special time in your lives with family and friends!
  • Victoria:

    May 15, 2012 12:32 pm

    I got engaged in December 2011. We decided to get married in the spring and this spring was way too soon, so we ended up setting a date for next April! My parents threw us an engagement party last month. So it was about 4 months after we initially got engaged and a year before our actual wedding. It was so much fun, I would highly recommend it. It was also great because both sides of our families all got to meet and mingle, which only our parents had done before.
{Wedding Planning Advice} The Importance of Wedding Invitations

“When it comes to wedding invitations, they are really so important. Invitations can get your guests very excited when you do something unique and different. If you open a standard old boring invitation, you are telling your guests just that – your wedding is going to be standard. So why not put a little more of the budget towards invitations and do something very fun and unique and make your guests say ‘Wow, I can’t wait to go to this wedding’.”

- Tifany of Gourmet Invitations

 

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  • Thirty Three and a Third:

    May 10, 2012 8:42 am

    Couldn't agree more! i think invitations are very important. They set the mood to the invitee and when the invitations are so gorgeous, it's hard to say no lol. They are also the first glimpse of what the wedding will look like.
  • Tina, tabibi design:

    May 10, 2012 8:49 am

    totally agree! a wedding invitation should set the tone for the event! something fresh and out-of-the-box will get any guests excited about the largest party a bride/groom will ever host!
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